Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu.. untuk yang kesekian kalinya aku post something kat blog nie..xtually x de idea pun nk tulis ape tapi memandangkan i am so boring dan disebabkan itula hampir kesemua cerita aku dah tengok mane x nye for the whole night i just waste my time watching movie till dawn..haha..ape2 jela.. okay now i will start my post with something beneficial.(bi tunggang langgang).huhu
PSYCHOLOGY TRICKS YOU CAN USE TO INFLUENCE PEOPLE..
ade several cara bagaimana psikology boleh kite gunekan untuk mempengaruhi seseorang itu...
1..Get favors
tricks: Get someone to do a favor for you(also known as Benjamin Franklin effect)
Legend has it that Benjamin Franklin once wanted to win over a man who didn’t like him. He asked the man to lend him a rare book and when the book was received he thanked him graciously. As a result, this the man who had never wanted to speak to him before, became good friends with Franklin. To quote Franklin: “He that has once done you a kindness will be more ready to do you another than he whom you yourself have obliged.”
Scientists decided to test this theory and found that those who were asked by the researcher for a personal favor rated the researcher much more favorably than the other groups did. It may seem counter-intuitive, but the theory is pretty sound. If someone does a favor for you, they are likely to rationalize that you must have been worth doing the favor for, and decide that therefore they must like you.
2.Aim High
trick: Ask for way more than you want at first then scale it back later.
This trick is sometimes known as the door in the face approach. You start by throwing a really ridiculous request at someone—a request they will most likely reject. You then come back shortly thereafter and ask for something much less ridiculous—the thing you actually wanted in the first place. This trick may also sound counter-intuitive, but the idea behind it is that the person will feel bad for refusing your first request, even though it was unreasonable, so when you ask for something reasonable they will feel obliged to help out this time.
Scientists tested this principle and found that it worked extremely well as long as the same person asked for both the bigger and smaller favor, because the person feels obliged to help you the second time and not anyone else.
3.Names
Trick: Use a person’s name, or their title depending on the situation.
Dale Carnegie, the author of How to Win Friends and Influence People, believed that using someone’s name was incredibly important. He said that a person’s name is the sweetest sound in any language for that person. A name is the core part of our identity, and so hearing it validates our existence, which makes us much more inclined to feel positively about the person who validated us.
But using a title, or form of address can also have strong effects, according to the as if principle. The idea is that if you act like a certain type of person, you will become that person, it’s a bit like a self fulfilling prophecy. To use this to influence others, you can refer to them as what you want them to be, so they will start thinking of themselves this way. This can be as simple as calling an acquaintance you want to be closer to “friend,” or “mate” whenever you see them, or referring to someone you want to work for as “boss.” But be warned: this can come off as very corny.
That's all for today..okay hopefully anda2 yang membacanya have fun and enjoy coz i just do it for fun okay.... assalamulaikum and bye bye..
